The Secrets Of Mega Confidence & Charisma

by John Baker

Would you like to increase your confidence? Would you like to develop charisma? Do you want to walk into a room and project confidence and charisma so other people admire you rather than ignore you? If so, the following material can change your life as it reveals secrets for boosting your confidence and charisma.

The secret to becoming a confident person consists of developing certainty. Few people realize that certainty is the basis for confidence. When you are certain about your ideas, your plans and your actions, you will naturally project an aura of confidence. There will be no need for faking reality or posturing or putting other people down. By developing certainty, you will project an abundance of confidence—mega confidence—that people will notice, respect and admire.

You might be wondering how to develop certainty. The answer, fortunately, is easy to understand. You need to use reason to make sure your ideas and plans correspond to reality. You also need to use reason to make sure your actions will lead you in the right direction. Thus reason or rational thinking is how you achieve certainty. And certainty will give rise to confidence. In other words, confidence is a by-product of certainty. You will no longer have to think about being confident because you will naturally exude confidence in your interactions with people.

The secret to becoming a charismatic person consists of finding your passion. For example, suppose you love to work directly with people, yet you find yourself stuck working in a barren factory putting packages on an assembly line. You will feel like a fish out of water because you are unable to talk with other people. You will not radiate charisma in such a situation. More likely, you will radiate frustration and dissatisfaction. Now imagine you have changed your life from isolated factory work to conducting seminars where you interact with hundreds of people several times a week. You will be passionate about what you do and you will naturally radiate charisma.

Once you find your passion and begin living your passion, your enthusiasm for life will positively infect people. Your charisma will captivate people. The key is finding your passion in life. Once you do this, you will be on your right path in life. Each day you will be enthusiastic and charismatic because you really do want to make a positive difference in people’s lives. Other people will sense this without you having to say it.

Upon developing confidence and charisma, you will become like a lighthouse in the darkness. Imagine the world as a dark place and your confidence and charisma lights up a given area so other people can see. People will naturally want to be around you because of your confident and charismatic personality. They will look to you for inspiration and an uplifting feeling that is invaluable, especially in a dark world.

Finally, realize that success breeds confidence. In fact, success acts like a virtuous cycle where small successes will increase your confidence by a small amount. By sticking to your journey in life and striving for greater accomplishments and meeting the challenges of life successfully, you will feel evermore confidence.

Certainty and success are the keys to confidence. First you use reason to be certain that your ideas and plans are valid. Then you take action on your plans and make needed corrections until you begin experiencing success. Eventually you will build up a reserve of confidence so you will be unshakable and unstoppable.

In summary, confidence is a trait that can be acquired through certainty and success. You can develop confidence and once you do, it can last a lifetime. Charisma is a trait that cannot really be acquired. If you are living a life that is disagreeable to you, then you will naturally lack charisma. But once you find your passion and start living the life of your dreams, you will exude natural charisma.

A hint regarding charisma is to observe people who naturally exude charisma. Observe high-profile singers, actors, celebrities and business leaders for examples. You will be impressed with their ability to captivate entire audiences. They radiate a charisma that cannot be learned; it naturally flows from who they are and from what they are doing. And that is the tell-tale sign: each person is doing what he or she loves.

Arrange matters so you do what you love. Make it a high priority. And by following through on this commitment, you too will exude confidence and charisma without being aware of doing it.

You will be more persuasive and appealing with your confident and charismatic aura. People will not only respect you and look to you for inspiration and advice; they will like you more. And this can open the doors of opportunity even if you are currently unknown.

John Baker

© 2006

 

Author: John Baker is the co-author of 'Evolve', a book about discovering your true and full potential. He was born in the UK and grew up in South-East England. With a diverse background from technical to creative, John Baker teamed up with Maxwell Jennings in 2002 to write 'Evolve' for the Power Essence Company. John's e-book - "Finding Your Passion" is one of Power Essence's most-read classics. Website: www.PowerEssence.com